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How to Stop Worrying for Good

How to Stop Worrying for Good

Few things are as ubiquitous as worry. We all say it. We all do it. And it steals your joy, my darling. Worry takes you out of the present moment and keeps you from taking action to make your life the intentional thoughtful life you dream of living. Today, I’ll be detailing the steps you…

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Worry and Your Nervous System

Worry and Your Nervous System

Do you find yourself rolling around in worry, not taking action in your life or spinning in your thoughts about what a symptom or a situation could mean, feeling paralyzed by not knowing the future, spending your time now worrying about something that might happen, or might not? Worry is so common and it keeps…

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Perfectionism: Why B+ Work is Key to Healing

perfectionism

Perfectionism is a sneaky little thought habit indeed. It keeps us running in a perpetual hamster wheel of self-doubt, self-loathing, and never enoughness. So what is perfectionism? And how do we know if perfectionist thinking is what’s driving us? How can we distinguish goal- setting, ambition, desire, passion for our work, from perfectionism? Perfectionist thought…

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Ep #56: Perfectionism

Perfectionism

Today, we’re talking about perfectionist thought habits, which is something I coach pretty much all my clients through, and something that was very much a part of my everyday life for a long time too. Perfectionist thinking is sneaky and insidious and can be extremely challenging to identify in yourself, so on this episode, I’m…

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Buffering

Buffering

Our society teaches us, in so many direct and insidious ways, that there is no need to sit with painful feelings. That you can pop a pill, have a drink, eat an indulgent food, fire off an email or a comment online and all those challenging feelings will just melt away. But the truth is,…

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One Year of the Feminist Wellness Podcast!

HELLO HELLO MY LOVE! I’m thrilled to celebrate the 1 year anniversary of  the Feminist Wellness podcast! It’s been such an exciting year and I’ve been so honored to be able to share the show with you every week. And because I love you sooooo much, I have a special treat for 4 lucky listeners….…

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Begin to Heal Intergenerational Codependency

Intergenerational Codependency

Codependent thinking habits can be so ingrained in us that we don’t even recognize when we’re having them. Putting others before ourselves and caring more about what other people think of us than what we think of ourselves are classic signs of codependency. And while codependent thinking is so often thought to be the product…

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Ep #55: Intergenerational Codependency

Intergenerational Codependency

I’m so excited to spend another week with you talking about a topic I’m so passionate about. Codependent habits and behaviors were such a big part of my life for so long, and so many of the folks I coach are also working on healing their own patterns, so I know this will be helpful…

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Future Tripping

Future Tripping

  I’ve been thinking a lot about future-tripping, also called anticipatory anxiety. Those times when we get so lost in worrying about the future and playing out different future scenarios, often the most doom and gloom filled ones, that we lose out on today. This used to be my brain’s favorite distraction technique, to keep…

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