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Why Nervous System Healing Isn’t Meant to Be Done Alone

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / January 22, 2026

Listen, my love. You can do this work alone. You really can. You can read the books, listen to the podcasts, journal until your hand cramps, practice orienting and grounding…

You Don’t Need Trauma to Struggle: Emotional Outsourcing, Nervous Systems, and the Quiet Roots of People-Pleasing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / January 14, 2026

“Nothing Bad Happened… So Why Do I Still Feel Like This?” When I talk about Emotional Outsourcing, there’s often a subtle reaction I notice right away. A quiet tightening. A…

What’s Actually Waiting for You on the Other Side of Emotional Outsourcing (And Why You Don’t Have to Be Scared)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / January 8, 2026

Understanding emotional outsourcing and how ending people-pleasing patterns can transform your relationships, decisions, and daily life If you’ve been people-pleasing, perfectionist-ing, and over-functioning your way through life, there’s probably a…

3 Holiday Emotional Boundaries That Make Saying No Easier, Stop Overexplaining, and Protect Your Energy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 16, 2025

The holidays have a way of pulling us backward in time. One minute you are living your adult life, and the next you feel eight or fourteen again, slipping into…

1 Powerful People Pleasing Tool to Reclaim Your Voice and Set Boundaries

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 9, 2025

A People Pleasing Tool That Actually Helps You Speak Up If you’ve ever found yourself smiling at the wrong moment, saying yes when you meant no, or walking away from…

The Truth About Burnout and How to Begin Healing with 1 Easy Practice

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 4, 2025

We’re nearing the end of the year (which feels wild to even say), and for so many of us, this time doesn’t just come with twinkle lights and holiday chaos.…

How to Stop Apologizing for Existing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 2, 2025

Welcome to this week’s Tenderoni Hotline, the cozy corner of The Feminist Wellness Podcast where we answer your tenderest questions with love, nervous system science, and a big dose of…

The Third Arrow: Healing Shame, Boundaries, and Holiday Triggers

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 26, 2025

Today is Thanksgiving here in the U.S., and whether you are celebrating or not, I want to share something that just might shift your entire experience of this day and…

From Self-Abandonment to Self-Love: Ending Emotional Outsourcing with Mary Jelkovsky

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 25, 2025

Self-Love as the Path Back to Ourselves What happens when you stop performing and start being? In this episode I sit down with Mary Jelkovsky of Mary’s Cup of Tea…

How to Survive Thanksgiving When You’re Healing From Emotional Outsourcing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 19, 2025

It’s that time of year again. American Thanksgiving is next week, and if you’re already feeling that familiar dread in your body, you’re not alone. Every year around this time,…