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The Truth About Emotional Outsourcing Burnout and How to Begin Healing

The Truth About Burnout and How to Begin Healing with 1 Easy Practice

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 4, 2025

We’re nearing the end of the year (which feels wild to even say), and for so many of us, this time doesn’t just come with twinkle lights and holiday chaos.…

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How to Stop Apologizing for Existing and Reclaim Your Space

How to Stop Apologizing for Existing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 2, 2025

Welcome to this week’s Tenderoni Hotline, the cozy corner of The Feminist Wellness Podcast where we answer your tenderest questions with love, nervous system science, and a big dose of…

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The Third Arrow: Healing Shame, Boundaries, and Holiday Triggers

The Third Arrow: Healing Shame, Boundaries, and Holiday Triggers

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 26, 2025

Today is Thanksgiving here in the U.S., and whether you are celebrating or not, I want to share something that just might shift your entire experience of this day and…

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From Self-Abandonment to Self-Love: Ending Emotional Outsourcing with Mary Jelkovsky

From Self-Abandonment to Self-Love: Ending Emotional Outsourcing with Mary Jelkovsky

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 25, 2025

Self-Love as the Path Back to Ourselves What happens when you stop performing and start being? In this episode I sit down with Mary Jelkovsky of Mary’s Cup of Tea…

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How to Survive Thanksgiving When You're Healing From Emotional Outsourcing

How to Survive Thanksgiving When You’re Healing From Emotional Outsourcing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 19, 2025

It’s that time of year again. American Thanksgiving is next week, and if you’re already feeling that familiar dread in your body, you’re not alone. Every year around this time,…

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Why Your Nervous System Craves Closure and Constant Reassurance in Relationships

Why Your Nervous System Craves Closure and Constant Reassurance in Relationships

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 18, 2025

Today, we are diving into two powerful questions around heartbreak, healing, and connection: Why do I keep replaying old conversations with my ex and craving closure, even though I know…

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Why You Need to Celebrate Your People-Pleasing Habits (Yes, Really)

Why You Need to Celebrate Your People-Pleasing Habits (Yes, Really)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 13, 2025

The Hidden Genius Behind Your People-Pleasing Patterns Picture this: You’re drowning in sticky notes reminding yourself to “be nice.” You’re replying to emails nobody expected you to answer. You’re RSVPing…

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How to Stop Over-Functioning in Relationships and Start Building Real Intimacy

How to Stop Over-Functioning in Relationships and Start Building Real Intimacy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 5, 2025

Are you always the one holding it all together? Do you feel responsible for managing the emotions, choices, and lives of the people around you? If so, you may be…

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The Vampire Invitation: Why People Ignore Your Boundaries—and How to Hold Your “No” with Powe

The Vampire Invitation: Why People Ignore Your Boundaries and How to Hold Your “No” with Power

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 29, 2025

The Vampire Invitation: When “No” Becomes a Negotiation You know how vampires can’t come into your house unless you invite them in? The same goes for the emotional vampires in…

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How to Set Nervous System Boundaries When You're Met With Defensiveness

How to Set Nervous System Boundaries When You’re Met With Defensiveness

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 28, 2025

Welcome back to the Tenderoni Hotline, where I answer your real, beautiful, and brave questions about somatics, the nervous system, emotional outsourcing, and so much more. If you have a…

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