emotional outsourcing
Hello, my love. My work is deeply and inherently political. Because your nervous system, your attachment patterns, your fear of disappointing people, none of it exists outside of culture. And…
Can I Be Ready for Real Love If I’m Still Healing from Emotional Outsourcing? Short answer? Yes. This old idea that you must fully love yourself before loving someone else…
Listen, my love. You can do this work alone. You really can. You can read the books, listen to the podcasts, journal until your hand cramps, practice orienting and grounding…
“Nothing Bad Happened… So Why Do I Still Feel Like This?” When I talk about Emotional Outsourcing, there’s often a subtle reaction I notice right away. A quiet tightening. A…
Understanding emotional outsourcing and how ending people-pleasing patterns can transform your relationships, decisions, and daily life If you’ve been people-pleasing, perfectionist-ing, and over-functioning your way through life, there’s probably a…
The holidays have a way of pulling us backward in time. One minute you are living your adult life, and the next you feel eight or fourteen again, slipping into…
A People Pleasing Tool That Actually Helps You Speak Up If you’ve ever found yourself smiling at the wrong moment, saying yes when you meant no, or walking away from…
We’re nearing the end of the year (which feels wild to even say), and for so many of us, this time doesn’t just come with twinkle lights and holiday chaos.…
Welcome to this week’s Tenderoni Hotline, the cozy corner of The Feminist Wellness Podcast where we answer your tenderest questions with love, nervous system science, and a big dose of…
Today is Thanksgiving here in the U.S., and whether you are celebrating or not, I want to share something that just might shift your entire experience of this day and…