feminist wellness
Can I Be Ready for Real Love If I’m Still Healing from Emotional Outsourcing? Short answer? Yes. This old idea that you must fully love yourself before loving someone else…
The holidays have a way of pulling us backward in time. One minute you are living your adult life, and the next you feel eight or fourteen again, slipping into…
The holiday season can be beautiful, cozy, connective, and wildly triggering. Whether you’re the one who blurts out something awkward without meaning to, or you’re the one bracing for invasive…
A People Pleasing Tool That Actually Helps You Speak Up If you’ve ever found yourself smiling at the wrong moment, saying yes when you meant no, or walking away from…
We’re nearing the end of the year (which feels wild to even say), and for so many of us, this time doesn’t just come with twinkle lights and holiday chaos.…
Are you always the one holding it all together? Do you feel responsible for managing the emotions, choices, and lives of the people around you? If so, you may be…
Welcome back to the Tenderoni Hotline, where I answer your real, beautiful, and brave questions about somatics, the nervous system, emotional outsourcing, and so much more. If you have a…
Last week, we talked about what it looks like to be in relationship with an emotionally immature partner. Those confusing conversations where you show up hoping to be heard but…
Why Guilt Shows Up Around Boundaries This is one of the most common and important questions that comes up in Anchored. Guilt shows up around boundaries because most of us…
Are You Dealing With an Emotionally Immature Partner? Being in a relationship with an emotionally immature partner can feel like living in a constant fog. You start conversations hoping to…