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Codependency Recovery: Why It Is Time for a New Framework

Codependency Recovery: Why It Is Time for a New Framework

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 4, 2025

Why Codependency Recovery Needs a Rethink Have you ever been called codependent? The word can land like a sting. It often describes people who lose themselves in others, who people…

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Preemptive Gaslighting – How to Stop Doubting Your Feelings

Preemptive Gaslighting: How to Stop Doubting Your Feelings

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 2, 2025

What Is Preemptive Gaslighting Have you ever been hurt by someone and instantly wondered if you were just “too sensitive”? Do you replay their words in your mind like a…

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8 signs of emotional outsourcing

The 8 Most Challenging Aspects of Emotional Outsourcing –

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 29, 2025

The 8 Most Challenging Aspects of Emotional Outsourcing™ When I coined the term Emotional Outsourcing™, I was trying to name something I lived with for decades, and that I see…

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The Overfunctioning Trap: How Doing Everything for Everyone Is Costing You Real Love

The Overfunctioning Trap: How Doing Everything for Everyone Is Costing You Real Love

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 26, 2025

OK, real talk. Are you reading this while replying to texts, planning dinner, and mentally organizing your schedule for tomorrow? If so, I see you. I am you. And I…

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Functional Freeze: The Hidden Nervous System State Keeping You Stuck

Functional Freeze: The Hidden Nervous System State Keeping You Stuck

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 21, 2025

If you’ve ever felt like you’re “doing all the things” while somehow feeling numb, disconnected, or not quite present in your life, you’re not alone-and you’re not broken. This nervous…

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How to Stop Living for Everyone Else's Approval (And Start Living for You)

How to Stop Living for Everyone Else’s Approval (And Start Living for You)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 5, 2025

Have you ever realized you don’t know what YOU want for breakfast because you’ve been so focused on making everyone else happy? You’re not alone – and you’re not broken.…

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How to Stop People Pleasing and Reclaim Your Authentic Self

Emotional Outsourcing: How to Stop People Pleasing and Reclaim Your Authentic Self

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / June 12, 2025

Discover the unconscious survival strategy that’s keeping you disconnected from yourself and learn science-backed methods to stop people pleasing and reclaim your authentic self.   Table of Contents What Is…

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