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How to Stop Apologizing for Existing and Reclaim Your Space

How to Stop Apologizing for Existing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 2, 2025

Welcome to this week’s Tenderoni Hotline, the cozy corner of The Feminist Wellness Podcast where we answer your tenderest questions with love, nervous system science, and a big dose of…

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Why Your Nervous System Craves Closure and Constant Reassurance in Relationships

Why Your Nervous System Craves Closure and Constant Reassurance in Relationships

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 18, 2025

Today, we are diving into two powerful questions around heartbreak, healing, and connection: Why do I keep replaying old conversations with my ex and craving closure, even though I know…

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How to Stop Over-Functioning in Relationships and Start Building Real Intimacy

How to Stop Over-Functioning in Relationships and Start Building Real Intimacy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 5, 2025

Are you always the one holding it all together? Do you feel responsible for managing the emotions, choices, and lives of the people around you? If so, you may be…

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How to Set Nervous System Boundaries When You're Met With Defensiveness

How to Set Nervous System Boundaries When You’re Met With Defensiveness

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 28, 2025

Welcome back to the Tenderoni Hotline, where I answer your real, beautiful, and brave questions about somatics, the nervous system, emotional outsourcing, and so much more. If you have a…

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How to Navigate Life with an Emotionally Immature Partner Without Losing Yourself

How to Navigate Life with an Emotionally Immature Partner Without Losing Yourself

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 23, 2025

Last week, we talked about what it looks like to be in relationship with an emotionally immature partner. Those confusing conversations where you show up hoping to be heard but…

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Learn how to spot an emotionally immature partner, how it impacts your nervous system, and why chronic confusion is not your fault.

5 Signs You’re With an Emotionally Immature Partner (And What It Does to Your Nervous System)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 16, 2025

Are You Dealing With an Emotionally Immature Partner? Being in a relationship with an emotionally immature partner can feel like living in a constant fog. You start conversations hoping to…

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Nervous System Healing for Knowing Your Needs and Saying No Without Guilt

Nervous System Healing for Knowing Your Needs and Saying No Without Guilt

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 14, 2025

Question 1: Why do I go blank when someone asks what I need? This is such a tender question and one I hear all the time. Whether it’s a partner…

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The Hidden Cause of Your Exhaustion

The Hidden Cause of Your Exhaustion and How to Finally Reclaim Your Energy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 2, 2025

If you’re dragging by 2 p.m. every day, wondering if you’re just not built for this world… Let me stop you right there. That exhaustion you feel is not laziness,…

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Ending Emotional Outsourcing: Why I Wrote the Book I Couldn't Find

End Emotional Outsourcing: Why I Wrote the Book I Couldn’t Find

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 25, 2025

I want to tell you why I wrote End Emotional Outsourcing, the book I couldn’t find when I needed it most. A book for the folks who feel like they’re…

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Nervous System Survival Strategies: When Empathy Becomes Self-Abandonment

Nervous System Survival Strategies: When Empathy Becomes Self-Abandonment

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 23, 2025

We’ve been taught to celebrate empathy. To applaud emotional attunement as a virtue. But what happens when tuning in to others comes at the expense of tuning in to yourself?…

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