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Learn how to spot an emotionally immature partner, how it impacts your nervous system, and why chronic confusion is not your fault.

5 Signs You’re With an Emotionally Immature Partner (And What It Does to Your Nervous System)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 16, 2025

Are You Dealing With an Emotionally Immature Partner? Being in a relationship with an emotionally immature partner can feel like living in a constant fog. You start conversations hoping to…

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Ending Emotional Outsourcing: Why I Wrote the Book I Couldn't Find

End Emotional Outsourcing: Why I Wrote the Book I Couldn’t Find

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 25, 2025

I want to tell you why I wrote End Emotional Outsourcing, the book I couldn’t find when I needed it most. A book for the folks who feel like they’re…

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Nervous System Survival Strategies: When Empathy Becomes Self-Abandonment

Nervous System Survival Strategies: When Empathy Becomes Self-Abandonment

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 23, 2025

We’ve been taught to celebrate empathy. To applaud emotional attunement as a virtue. But what happens when tuning in to others comes at the expense of tuning in to yourself?…

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The Truth About Resentment: How It Builds in Your Body and What to Do About It

The Truth About Resentment: How It Builds in Your Body and What to Do About It

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 18, 2025

Hello, hello my love. Let’s go full nerd today, in the best possible way. I want to walk you through something I call the equation of resentment, explain what’s actually…

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People Pleasing and the Myth of Worth Through Usefulness

People Pleasing and the Myth of Worth Through Usefulness

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 16, 2025

Are you exhausted from giving and giving until you feel like a ghost in your own life? That is not generosity. That is survival dressed up as selflessness. Let’s talk…

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Emotional Outsourcing: How to Recognize and Heal People-Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Codependency

Emotional Outsourcing: How to Recognize and Heal People-Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Codependency

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 15, 2025

What Is Emotional Outsourcing? Emotional Outsourcing is the term I coined to describe what happens when we chronically and habitually source our sense of safety, belonging, and worth from outside…

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Functional Freeze: The Hidden Nervous System State Keeping You Stuck

Functional Freeze: The Hidden Nervous System State Keeping You Stuck

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 21, 2025

If you’ve ever felt like you’re “doing all the things” while somehow feeling numb, disconnected, or not quite present in your life, you’re not alone-and you’re not broken. This nervous…

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How to Stop People Pleasing and Reclaim Your Authentic Self

Emotional Outsourcing: How to Stop People Pleasing and Reclaim Your Authentic Self

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / June 12, 2025

Discover the unconscious survival strategy that’s keeping you disconnected from yourself and learn science-backed methods to stop people pleasing and reclaim your authentic self.   Table of Contents What Is…

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