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The Truth About Emotional Outsourcing Burnout and How to Begin Healing

The Truth About Burnout and How to Begin Healing with 1 Easy Practice

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 4, 2025

We’re nearing the end of the year (which feels wild to even say), and for so many of us, this time doesn’t just come with twinkle lights and holiday chaos.…

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How to Stop Apologizing for Existing and Reclaim Your Space

How to Stop Apologizing for Existing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 2, 2025

Welcome to this week’s Tenderoni Hotline, the cozy corner of The Feminist Wellness Podcast where we answer your tenderest questions with love, nervous system science, and a big dose of…

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How to Survive Thanksgiving When You're Healing From Emotional Outsourcing

How to Survive Thanksgiving When You’re Healing From Emotional Outsourcing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 19, 2025

It’s that time of year again. American Thanksgiving is next week, and if you’re already feeling that familiar dread in your body, you’re not alone. Every year around this time,…

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Why Your Nervous System Craves Closure and Constant Reassurance in Relationships

Why Your Nervous System Craves Closure and Constant Reassurance in Relationships

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 18, 2025

Today, we are diving into two powerful questions around heartbreak, healing, and connection: Why do I keep replaying old conversations with my ex and craving closure, even though I know…

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How to Stop Over-Functioning in Relationships and Start Building Real Intimacy

How to Stop Over-Functioning in Relationships and Start Building Real Intimacy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 5, 2025

Are you always the one holding it all together? Do you feel responsible for managing the emotions, choices, and lives of the people around you? If so, you may be…

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The Vampire Invitation: Why People Ignore Your Boundaries—and How to Hold Your “No” with Powe

The Vampire Invitation: Why People Ignore Your Boundaries and How to Hold Your “No” with Power

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 29, 2025

The Vampire Invitation: When “No” Becomes a Negotiation You know how vampires can’t come into your house unless you invite them in? The same goes for the emotional vampires in…

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How to Navigate Life with an Emotionally Immature Partner Without Losing Yourself

How to Navigate Life with an Emotionally Immature Partner Without Losing Yourself

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 23, 2025

Last week, we talked about what it looks like to be in relationship with an emotionally immature partner. Those confusing conversations where you show up hoping to be heard but…

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Learn how to spot an emotionally immature partner, how it impacts your nervous system, and why chronic confusion is not your fault.

5 Signs You’re With an Emotionally Immature Partner (And What It Does to Your Nervous System)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 16, 2025

Are You Dealing With an Emotionally Immature Partner? Being in a relationship with an emotionally immature partner can feel like living in a constant fog. You start conversations hoping to…

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Ending Emotional Outsourcing: Why I Wrote the Book I Couldn't Find

End Emotional Outsourcing: Why I Wrote the Book I Couldn’t Find

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 25, 2025

I want to tell you why I wrote End Emotional Outsourcing, the book I couldn’t find when I needed it most. A book for the folks who feel like they’re…

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Nervous System Survival Strategies: When Empathy Becomes Self-Abandonment

Nervous System Survival Strategies: When Empathy Becomes Self-Abandonment

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 23, 2025

We’ve been taught to celebrate empathy. To applaud emotional attunement as a virtue. But what happens when tuning in to others comes at the expense of tuning in to yourself?…

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