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The 7 Types of Rest Your Nervous System Needs (When You’ve Spent Years People-Pleasing)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / March 26, 2026

My love, we need to talk about rest. And I don’t mean the kind that comes wrapped in $300 pajamas or spa weekends that somehow leave you more exhausted than…

The Revolutionary Cost of Silence: How Emotional Outsourcing Keeps You Frozen | Part 1

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / February 25, 2026

Hello, my love. My work is deeply and inherently political. Because your nervous system, your attachment patterns, your fear of disappointing people, none of it exists outside of culture. And…

3 Important Questions About Emotional Outsourcing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / February 3, 2026

Can I Be Ready for Real Love If I’m Still Healing from Emotional Outsourcing? Short answer? Yes. This old idea that you must fully love yourself before loving someone else…

Why Nervous System Healing Isn’t Meant to Be Done Alone

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / January 22, 2026

Listen, my love. You can do this work alone. You really can. You can read the books, listen to the podcasts, journal until your hand cramps, practice orienting and grounding…

3 Holiday Emotional Boundaries That Make Saying No Easier, Stop Overexplaining, and Protect Your Energy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 16, 2025

The holidays have a way of pulling us backward in time. One minute you are living your adult life, and the next you feel eight or fourteen again, slipping into…

7 Holiday Questions and How to Handle Them With Grace

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 10, 2025

The holiday season can be beautiful, cozy, connective, and wildly triggering. Whether you’re the one who blurts out something awkward without meaning to, or you’re the one bracing for invasive…

The Truth About Burnout and How to Begin Healing with 1 Easy Practice

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 4, 2025

We’re nearing the end of the year (which feels wild to even say), and for so many of us, this time doesn’t just come with twinkle lights and holiday chaos.…

How to Stop Apologizing for Existing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 2, 2025

Welcome to this week’s Tenderoni Hotline, the cozy corner of The Feminist Wellness Podcast where we answer your tenderest questions with love, nervous system science, and a big dose of…

How to Survive Thanksgiving When You’re Healing From Emotional Outsourcing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 19, 2025

It’s that time of year again. American Thanksgiving is next week, and if you’re already feeling that familiar dread in your body, you’re not alone. Every year around this time,…