Posts by Beatriz Victoria Albina
Tenderoni Hotline #2: Why You Freeze When Asked What You Need + How to Say No Without Feeling Guilt
Hello, hello, my love. Welcome back to Feminist Wellness. Today, we’re continuing our newest and most tender segment: The Tenderoni Hotline – your weekly dose of somatics, nervous system wisdom, and loving feminist coaching. Every Tuesday, I’m answering real questions from you, our beautiful community, drawing from Anchored, The Somatic Studio, and your emails. Let’s…
Read MoreEp #347: Healing Unmet Needs and Attachment Patterns
Learn the science behind why we repeat patterns that don’t serve us, and practical steps to start healing those unmet needs and create new, healthier patterns.
Read MoreTenderoni Hotline #1: Nervous System Regulation Tips + How to Stop Losing Yourself in Others’ Needs
Today is a very special day here on Feminist Wellness. We’re launching something new, tender, and exciting: The Tenderoni Hotline. Every Tuesday moving forward, I’ll be answering questions from you, our glorious community. I’ll be pulling from Anchored, the Somatic Studio, and your beautiful emails. This segment is part Q&A, part coaching, and 100% infused with…
Read MoreEp #346: The Cost of Emotional Outsourcing
Join me today to learn the true cost of emotional outsourcing, and why these survival strategies are no longer serving you.
Read MoreBook Series Bonus #9: Today Is the Day: End Emotional Outsourcing Is Here!
My loves, today is the day. Publication day. The day this book I have poured my heart, my science-nerdy brain, my story, and my whole self into is officially out in the world. And I need you with me – not later, not someday, but today. Why Preorders Are Critical What happens this week matters.…
Read MoreEp #345: Why I Wrote My Book
Learn why I wrote my new book, End Emotional Outsourcing, and the revolutionary framework it offers for understanding why we feel stuck.
Read MoreBook Series Bonus #8: The Thing You Do That You Don’t Even Know You Do
Do you pride yourself on being “super intuitive,” the one who can read a room in seconds, sense a shift in someone’s energy over text, or predict disappointment before it even hits? You are not broken. You may simply be running a nervous system pattern I call emotional outsourcing, and you do not have to…
Read MoreEp #344: The Resentment Equation: A Deep Dive Into Emotional Labor Debt
Learn my mathematical formula for resentment, what emotional labor debt is, and how it compounds over time like financial debt.
Read MoreBook Series Bonus #7: You Don’t Have to Earn Your Worth Anymore
Ever feel like you’ve turned into a human vending machine, dispensing kindness, helpfulness, and support on demand? That’s not generosity. That’s survival mode in disguise. Here’s how to stop auditioning for love and start reclaiming your worth. The Human Vending Machine Moment Lisa, a client of mine, once told me about the day someone called…
Read MoreEp #343: Pet Names That Trigger
Discover why being called pet names like “my angel” or “mi amor” feels like a warm embrace to some, while others recoil from it.
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