The Bea Victoria Albina Blog
Hello, hello my love. Let’s go full nerd today, in the best possible way. I want to walk you through something I call the equation of resentment, explain what’s actually…
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Are you exhausted from giving and giving until you feel like a ghost in your own life? That is not generosity. That is survival dressed up as selflessness. Let’s talk…
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What Is Emotional Outsourcing? Emotional Outsourcing is the term I coined to describe what happens when we chronically and habitually source our sense of safety, belonging, and worth from outside…
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Why Tenderness Triggers Us Tenderness is powerful. When someone calls you “my love” or “my tender ravioli” with genuine warmth, it can spark recognition of your inherent worth. Yet for…
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Do you ever find yourself lying awake at night, replaying a conversation on loop? That awkward pause, the joke nobody laughed at, or the text that felt “off” suddenly becomes…
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Why Codependency Recovery Needs a Rethink Have you ever been called codependent? The word can land like a sting. It often describes people who lose themselves in others, who people…
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What Is Preemptive Gaslighting Have you ever been hurt by someone and instantly wondered if you were just “too sensitive”? Do you replay their words in your mind like a…
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The 8 Most Challenging Aspects of Emotional Outsourcing™ When I coined the term Emotional Outsourcing™, I was trying to name something I lived with for decades, and that I see…
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What Is Emotional Outsourcing? Emotional outsourcing is the unconscious habit of relying on others for validation, safety, love, and belonging instead of finding those resources within ourselves. Unlike labels such…
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OK, real talk. Are you reading this while replying to texts, planning dinner, and mentally organizing your schedule for tomorrow? If so, I see you. I am you. And I…
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