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Women’s Rage Is Not the Problem. Here’s What to Do With It Instead.

By Amanda Ueckermann / May 14, 2026

I was recently a guest on a podcast when the host asked me a question I haven’t been able to stop thinking about. She was talking about the women in…

The Story of Overwhelm: When Perfectionism Puts You in the Victim Chair

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / May 7, 2026

What If “I’m So Overwhelmed” Is Doing Two Jobs at Once? Here’s something worth sitting with: when you say “I’m so overwhelmed” — and you mean it, you really mean…

5 Hidden Types of Rest Your Body Is Begging For

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 23, 2026

My love, we need to go deeper. Because yes, we have talked about rest, and yes, something in you recognized yourself in that conversation. But if you felt that pull…

Does Self-Resourcing Mean I Don’t Need People? The Truth About Codependency, Connection, and Having Your Own Back

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 16, 2026

If you’ve been doing any work around codependent patterns, people-pleasing, or Emotional Outsourcing, there’s a good chance you’ve had this thought: Does learning to have my own back mean I’m…

What Is Self-Resourcing? (And Why It’s the Key to Healing Codependency and People-Pleasing)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 9, 2026

There’s a question I get asked constantly – by listeners, by people who stumble onto my work, and most often by people inside Anchored, my six-month group coaching program. It…

How to Know When a Relationship No Longer Serves You

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 9, 2026

Alright my love, let’s talk about something that does not get nearly enough airtime: The quiet, ongoing work of consciously, intentionally evaluating your relationships. And I don’t just mean your…

How to Actually Start Resting: A Practical Guide for Recovering People-Pleasers

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 2, 2026

This is Part 2 of a series on rest and nervous system regulation. Read Part 1: The 7 Types of Rest Your Nervous System Needs  Alright my love, let’s get…

The 7 Types of Rest Your Nervous System Needs (When You’ve Spent Years People-Pleasing)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / March 26, 2026

My love, we need to talk about rest. And I don’t mean the kind that comes wrapped in $300 pajamas or spa weekends that somehow leave you more exhausted than…

Why You’re Too Exhausted to Be Politically Active (And What to Actually Do About It) | Part 3

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / March 12, 2026

You care deeply about what’s happening in the world. So why can’t you show up? If you’ve been watching the news, feeling that stone of dread in your chest, signing…