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Nervous System Healing for Knowing Your Needs and Saying No Without Guilt

Nervous System Healing for Knowing Your Needs and Saying No Without Guilt

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 14, 2025

Question 1: Why do I go blank when someone asks what I need? This is such a tender question and one I hear all the time. Whether it’s a partner…

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The Hidden Cause of Your Exhaustion

The Hidden Cause of Your Exhaustion and How to Finally Reclaim Your Energy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 2, 2025

If you’re dragging by 2 p.m. every day, wondering if you’re just not built for this world… Let me stop you right there. That exhaustion you feel is not laziness,…

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Nervous System Survival Strategies: When Empathy Becomes Self-Abandonment

Nervous System Survival Strategies: When Empathy Becomes Self-Abandonment

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 23, 2025

We’ve been taught to celebrate empathy. To applaud emotional attunement as a virtue. But what happens when tuning in to others comes at the expense of tuning in to yourself?…

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The Truth About Resentment: How It Builds in Your Body and What to Do About It

The Truth About Resentment: How It Builds in Your Body and What to Do About It

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 18, 2025

Hello, hello my love. Let’s go full nerd today, in the best possible way. I want to walk you through something I call the equation of resentment, explain what’s actually…

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People Pleasing and the Myth of Worth Through Usefulness

People Pleasing and the Myth of Worth Through Usefulness

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 16, 2025

Are you exhausted from giving and giving until you feel like a ghost in your own life? That is not generosity. That is survival dressed up as selflessness. Let’s talk…

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How to Stop Rumination and Overthinking at 2AM

How to Stop Rumination and Overthinking at 2AM

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 9, 2025

Do you ever find yourself lying awake at night, replaying a conversation on loop? That awkward pause, the joke nobody laughed at, or the text that felt “off” suddenly becomes…

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Preemptive Gaslighting – How to Stop Doubting Your Feelings

Preemptive Gaslighting: How to Stop Doubting Your Feelings

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 2, 2025

What Is Preemptive Gaslighting Have you ever been hurt by someone and instantly wondered if you were just “too sensitive”? Do you replay their words in your mind like a…

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How to Stop People Pleasing and Reclaim Your Authentic Self

Emotional Outsourcing: How to Stop People Pleasing and Reclaim Your Authentic Self

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / June 12, 2025

Discover the unconscious survival strategy that’s keeping you disconnected from yourself and learn science-backed methods to stop people pleasing and reclaim your authentic self.   Table of Contents What Is…

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