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Learn how to navigate 7 awkward holiday questions with somatic tools, calm replies, and compassionate boundaries that keep you grounded.

7 Holiday Questions and How to Handle Them With Grace

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 10, 2025

The holiday season can be beautiful, cozy, connective, and wildly triggering. Whether you’re the one who blurts out something awkward without meaning to, or you’re the one bracing for invasive…

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1 Powerful People Pleasing Tool to Reclaim Your Voice and Set Boundaries

1 Powerful People Pleasing Tool to Reclaim Your Voice and Set Boundaries

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 9, 2025

A People Pleasing Tool That Actually Helps You Speak Up If you’ve ever found yourself smiling at the wrong moment, saying yes when you meant no, or walking away from…

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The Truth About Emotional Outsourcing Burnout and How to Begin Healing

The Truth About Burnout and How to Begin Healing with 1 Easy Practice

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 4, 2025

We’re nearing the end of the year (which feels wild to even say), and for so many of us, this time doesn’t just come with twinkle lights and holiday chaos.…

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How to Stop Over-Functioning in Relationships and Start Building Real Intimacy

How to Stop Over-Functioning in Relationships and Start Building Real Intimacy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 5, 2025

Are you always the one holding it all together? Do you feel responsible for managing the emotions, choices, and lives of the people around you? If so, you may be…

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How to Set Nervous System Boundaries When You're Met With Defensiveness

How to Set Nervous System Boundaries When You’re Met With Defensiveness

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 28, 2025

Welcome back to the Tenderoni Hotline, where I answer your real, beautiful, and brave questions about somatics, the nervous system, emotional outsourcing, and so much more. If you have a…

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How to Navigate Life with an Emotionally Immature Partner Without Losing Yourself

How to Navigate Life with an Emotionally Immature Partner Without Losing Yourself

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 23, 2025

Last week, we talked about what it looks like to be in relationship with an emotionally immature partner. Those confusing conversations where you show up hoping to be heard but…

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Why Guilt Shows Up Around Boundaries and Why You Procrastinate

Why Guilt Shows Up Around Boundaries and Why You Procrastinate

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 21, 2025

Why Guilt Shows Up Around Boundaries This is one of the most common and important questions that comes up in Anchored. Guilt shows up around boundaries because most of us…

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Learn how to spot an emotionally immature partner, how it impacts your nervous system, and why chronic confusion is not your fault.

5 Signs You’re With an Emotionally Immature Partner (And What It Does to Your Nervous System)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 16, 2025

Are You Dealing With an Emotionally Immature Partner? Being in a relationship with an emotionally immature partner can feel like living in a constant fog. You start conversations hoping to…

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Nervous System Healing for Knowing Your Needs and Saying No Without Guilt

Nervous System Healing for Knowing Your Needs and Saying No Without Guilt

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 14, 2025

Question 1: Why do I go blank when someone asks what I need? This is such a tender question and one I hear all the time. Whether it’s a partner…

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The Hidden Cause of Your Exhaustion

The Hidden Cause of Your Exhaustion and How to Finally Reclaim Your Energy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 2, 2025

If you’re dragging by 2 p.m. every day, wondering if you’re just not built for this world… Let me stop you right there. That exhaustion you feel is not laziness,…

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