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5 Hidden Types of Rest Your Body Is Begging For

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 23, 2026

My love, we need to go deeper. Because yes, we have talked about rest, and yes, something in you recognized yourself in that conversation. But if you felt that pull…

Does Self-Resourcing Mean I Don’t Need People? The Truth About Codependency, Connection, and Having Your Own Back

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 16, 2026

If you’ve been doing any work around codependent patterns, people-pleasing, or Emotional Outsourcing, there’s a good chance you’ve had this thought: Does learning to have my own back mean I’m…

What Is Self-Resourcing? (And Why It’s the Key to Healing Codependency and People-Pleasing)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 9, 2026

There’s a question I get asked constantly – by listeners, by people who stumble onto my work, and most often by people inside Anchored, my six-month group coaching program. It…

How to Know When a Relationship No Longer Serves You

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 9, 2026

Alright my love, let’s talk about something that does not get nearly enough airtime: The quiet, ongoing work of consciously, intentionally evaluating your relationships. And I don’t just mean your…

How to Actually Start Resting: A Practical Guide for Recovering People-Pleasers

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 2, 2026

This is Part 2 of a series on rest and nervous system regulation. Read Part 1: The 7 Types of Rest Your Nervous System Needs  Alright my love, let’s get…

The 7 Types of Rest Your Nervous System Needs (When You’ve Spent Years People-Pleasing)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / March 26, 2026

My love, we need to talk about rest. And I don’t mean the kind that comes wrapped in $300 pajamas or spa weekends that somehow leave you more exhausted than…

Why You’re Too Exhausted to Be Politically Active (And What to Actually Do About It) | Part 3

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / March 12, 2026

You care deeply about what’s happening in the world. So why can’t you show up? If you’ve been watching the news, feeling that stone of dread in your chest, signing…

Sacred Anger: How to Channel Rage Without Burning Yourself (or the Movement) Out | Part 2

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / March 5, 2026

When Your Anger Feels Like a Flamethrower Hello my love. Last week we talked about how emotional outsourcing can keep you frozen. We explored how fear of disapproval and managing…

The Revolutionary Cost of Silence: How Emotional Outsourcing Keeps You Frozen | Part 1

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / February 25, 2026

Hello, my love. My work is deeply and inherently political. Because your nervous system, your attachment patterns, your fear of disappointing people, none of it exists outside of culture. And…