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Ending Emotional Outsourcing: Why I Wrote the Book I Couldn't Find

End Emotional Outsourcing: Why I Wrote the Book I Couldn’t Find

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 25, 2025

I want to tell you why I wrote End Emotional Outsourcing, the book I couldn’t find when I needed it most. A book for the folks who feel like they’re…

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Nervous System Survival Strategies: When Empathy Becomes Self-Abandonment

Nervous System Survival Strategies: When Empathy Becomes Self-Abandonment

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 23, 2025

We’ve been taught to celebrate empathy. To applaud emotional attunement as a virtue. But what happens when tuning in to others comes at the expense of tuning in to yourself?…

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The Truth About Resentment: How It Builds in Your Body and What to Do About It

The Truth About Resentment: How It Builds in Your Body and What to Do About It

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 18, 2025

Hello, hello my love. Let’s go full nerd today, in the best possible way. I want to walk you through something I call the equation of resentment, explain what’s actually…

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The Healing Power of Tenderness in Emotional Outsourcing

The Healing Power of Tenderness in Emotional Outsourcing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 11, 2025

Why Tenderness Triggers Us Tenderness is powerful. When someone calls you “my love” or “my tender ravioli” with genuine warmth, it can spark recognition of your inherent worth. Yet for…

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