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How to Actually Start Resting: A Practical Guide for Recovering People-Pleasers

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 2, 2026

This is Part 2 of a series on rest and nervous system regulation. Read Part 1: The 7 Types of Rest Your Nervous System Needs  Alright my love, let’s get…

The 7 Types of Rest Your Nervous System Needs (When You’ve Spent Years People-Pleasing)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / March 26, 2026

My love, we need to talk about rest. And I don’t mean the kind that comes wrapped in $300 pajamas or spa weekends that somehow leave you more exhausted than…

The Revolutionary Cost of Silence: How Emotional Outsourcing Keeps You Frozen | Part 1

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / February 25, 2026

Hello, my love. My work is deeply and inherently political. Because your nervous system, your attachment patterns, your fear of disappointing people, none of it exists outside of culture. And…

Why Nervous System Healing Isn’t Meant to Be Done Alone

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / January 22, 2026

Listen, my love. You can do this work alone. You really can. You can read the books, listen to the podcasts, journal until your hand cramps, practice orienting and grounding…

What’s Actually Waiting for You on the Other Side of Emotional Outsourcing (And Why You Don’t Have to Be Scared)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / January 8, 2026

Understanding emotional outsourcing and how ending people-pleasing patterns can transform your relationships, decisions, and daily life If you’ve been people-pleasing, perfectionist-ing, and over-functioning your way through life, there’s probably a…

3 Holiday Emotional Boundaries That Make Saying No Easier, Stop Overexplaining, and Protect Your Energy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 16, 2025

The holidays have a way of pulling us backward in time. One minute you are living your adult life, and the next you feel eight or fourteen again, slipping into…

1 Powerful People Pleasing Tool to Reclaim Your Voice and Set Boundaries

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 9, 2025

A People Pleasing Tool That Actually Helps You Speak Up If you’ve ever found yourself smiling at the wrong moment, saying yes when you meant no, or walking away from…

The Truth About Burnout and How to Begin Healing with 1 Easy Practice

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 4, 2025

We’re nearing the end of the year (which feels wild to even say), and for so many of us, this time doesn’t just come with twinkle lights and holiday chaos.…

How to Stop Apologizing for Existing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 2, 2025

Welcome to this week’s Tenderoni Hotline, the cozy corner of The Feminist Wellness Podcast where we answer your tenderest questions with love, nervous system science, and a big dose of…