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How to Navigate Life with an Emotionally Immature Partner Without Losing Yourself

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 23, 2025

Last week, we talked about what it looks like to be in relationship with an emotionally immature partner. Those confusing conversations where you show up hoping to be heard but…

Why Guilt Shows Up Around Boundaries and Why You Procrastinate

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 21, 2025

Why Guilt Shows Up Around Boundaries This is one of the most common and important questions that comes up in Anchored. Guilt shows up around boundaries because most of us…

The Hidden Cause of Your Exhaustion and How to Finally Reclaim Your Energy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / October 2, 2025

If you’re dragging by 2 p.m. every day, wondering if you’re just not built for this world… Let me stop you right there. That exhaustion you feel is not laziness,…

Why Preordering End Emotional Outsourcing Today Matters

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 30, 2025

Publication Day: A Love Letter to You My loves, today is the day. Publication day. The day this book I have poured my heart, my science-nerdy brain, my story, and…

End Emotional Outsourcing: Why I Wrote the Book I Couldn’t Find

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 25, 2025

I want to tell you why I wrote End Emotional Outsourcing, the book I couldn’t find when I needed it most. A book for the folks who feel like they’re…

The Truth About Resentment: How It Builds in Your Body and What to Do About It

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 18, 2025

Hello, hello my love. Let’s go full nerd today, in the best possible way. I want to walk you through something I call the equation of resentment, explain what’s actually…

Emotional Outsourcing: How to Recognize and Heal People-Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Codependency

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / September 15, 2025

What Is Emotional Outsourcing? Emotional Outsourcing is the term I coined to describe what happens when we chronically and habitually source our sense of safety, belonging, and worth from outside…

Emotional Outsourcing: How to Stop People Pleasing and Reclaim Your Authentic Self

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / June 12, 2025

Discover the unconscious survival strategy that’s keeping you disconnected from yourself and learn science-backed methods to stop people pleasing and reclaim your authentic self.   Table of Contents What Is…