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We’ve been taught to celebrate empathy. To applaud emotional attunement as a virtue. But what happens when tuning in to others comes at the expense of tuning in to yourself?…
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Are you exhausted from giving and giving until you feel like a ghost in your own life? That is not generosity. That is survival dressed up as selflessness. Let’s talk…
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Why Tenderness Triggers Us Tenderness is powerful. When someone calls you “my love” or “my tender ravioli” with genuine warmth, it can spark recognition of your inherent worth. Yet for…
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Do you ever find yourself lying awake at night, replaying a conversation on loop? That awkward pause, the joke nobody laughed at, or the text that felt “off” suddenly becomes…
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Why Codependency Recovery Needs a Rethink Have you ever been called codependent? The word can land like a sting. It often describes people who lose themselves in others, who people…
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The 8 Most Challenging Aspects of Emotional Outsourcing™ When I coined the term Emotional Outsourcing™, I was trying to name something I lived with for decades, and that I see…
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