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How to Actually Start Resting: A Practical Guide for Recovering People-Pleasers

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / April 2, 2026

This is Part 2 of a series on rest and nervous system regulation. Read Part 1: The 7 Types of Rest Your Nervous System Needs  Alright my love, let’s get…

The 7 Types of Rest Your Nervous System Needs (When You’ve Spent Years People-Pleasing)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / March 26, 2026

My love, we need to talk about rest. And I don’t mean the kind that comes wrapped in $300 pajamas or spa weekends that somehow leave you more exhausted than…

What’s Actually Waiting for You on the Other Side of Emotional Outsourcing (And Why You Don’t Have to Be Scared)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / January 8, 2026

Understanding emotional outsourcing and how ending people-pleasing patterns can transform your relationships, decisions, and daily life If you’ve been people-pleasing, perfectionist-ing, and over-functioning your way through life, there’s probably a…

1 Powerful People Pleasing Tool to Reclaim Your Voice and Set Boundaries

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 9, 2025

A People Pleasing Tool That Actually Helps You Speak Up If you’ve ever found yourself smiling at the wrong moment, saying yes when you meant no, or walking away from…

The Truth About Burnout and How to Begin Healing with 1 Easy Practice

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 4, 2025

We’re nearing the end of the year (which feels wild to even say), and for so many of us, this time doesn’t just come with twinkle lights and holiday chaos.…

How to Stop Apologizing for Existing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 2, 2025

Welcome to this week’s Tenderoni Hotline, the cozy corner of The Feminist Wellness Podcast where we answer your tenderest questions with love, nervous system science, and a big dose of…

The Third Arrow: Healing Shame, Boundaries, and Holiday Triggers

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 26, 2025

Today is Thanksgiving here in the U.S., and whether you are celebrating or not, I want to share something that just might shift your entire experience of this day and…

From Self-Abandonment to Self-Love: Ending Emotional Outsourcing with Mary Jelkovsky

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 25, 2025

Self-Love as the Path Back to Ourselves What happens when you stop performing and start being? In this episode I sit down with Mary Jelkovsky of Mary’s Cup of Tea…

Why You Need to Celebrate Your People-Pleasing Habits (Yes, Really)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 13, 2025

The Hidden Genius Behind Your People-Pleasing Patterns Picture this: You’re drowning in sticky notes reminding yourself to “be nice.” You’re replying to emails nobody expected you to answer. You’re RSVPing…

How to Stop Over-Functioning in Relationships and Start Building Real Intimacy

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 5, 2025

Are you always the one holding it all together? Do you feel responsible for managing the emotions, choices, and lives of the people around you? If so, you may be…