Posts by Beatriz Victoria Albina

Learn why I wrote my new book, End Emotional Outsourcing, and the revolutionary framework it offers for understanding why we feel stuck.

Do you pride yourself on being “super intuitive,” the one who can read a room in seconds, sense a shift in someone’s energy over text, or predict disappointment before it even hits? You are not broken. You may simply be running a nervous system pattern I call emotional outsourcing, and you do not have to…

Learn my mathematical formula for resentment, what emotional labor debt is, and how it compounds over time like financial debt.

Ever feel like you’ve turned into a human vending machine, dispensing kindness, helpfulness, and support on demand? That’s not generosity. That’s survival mode in disguise. Here’s how to stop auditioning for love and start reclaiming your worth. The Human Vending Machine Moment Lisa, a client of mine, once told me about the day someone called…

Discover why being called pet names like “my angel” or “mi amor” feels like a warm embrace to some, while others recoil from it.

Do you replay conversations late at night, analyzing every word and micro expression until you feel like you are losing your mind? Do you wonder if you said too much, too little, too loud, or too quiet, and convince yourself someone must be mad at you? That is not you being “crazy.” That is rumination,…

Discover the brilliant logic behind emotional outsourcing and practical ways to create genuine safety for your nervous system.

Do you second guess your feelings the moment they arise? Do you need “evidence” or other people’s validation before you let yourself be hurt? You’re not broken. You’re running an old survival strategy I call preemptive gaslighting – and you don’t have to keep living this way. The Phrase That Changed Everything I need to…

Discover the brilliant logic behind emotional outsourcing and practical ways to create genuine safety for your nervous system.