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Ep #343: Pet Names That Trigger
Discover why being called pet names like “my angel” or “mi amor” feels like a warm embrace to some, while others recoil from it.
Read MoreBook Series Bonus #6: The 2 AM Mental Hamster Wheel
Do you replay conversations late at night, analyzing every word and micro expression until you feel like you are losing your mind? Do you wonder if you said too much, too little, too loud, or too quiet, and convince yourself someone must be mad at you? That is not you being “crazy.” That is rumination,…
Read MoreEp #342: Why I Don’t Use the Term “Codependency”
Discover the brilliant logic behind emotional outsourcing and practical ways to create genuine safety for your nervous system.
Read MoreBook Series Bonus #5: Did I Make It All Up or Am I Actually Hurt?
Do you replay conversations late at night, analyzing every word and micro expression until you feel like you are losing your mind? Do you wonder if you said too much, too little, too loud, or too quiet, and convince yourself someone must be mad at you? That is not you being “crazy.” That is rumination,…
Read MoreEp #341: Your Brilliant Nervous System: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing
Discover the brilliant logic behind emotional outsourcing and practical ways to create genuine safety for your nervous system.
Read MoreBook Series Bonus #4: You’re Not Loving Them, You’re Managing Them
Do you replay conversations late at night, analyzing every word and micro expression until you feel like you are losing your mind? Do you wonder if you said too much, too little, too loud, or too quiet, and convince yourself someone must be mad at you? That is not you being “crazy.” That is rumination,…
Read MoreEp #340: Recognizing Functional Freeze: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing
Learn what functional freeze really is and why it’s not your fault, how to recognize when you’re in it, and why understanding this pattern is the first step to breaking free.
Read MoreBook Series Bonus #3: You’re Not Too Much. You’re Not Not Enough.
Do you replay conversations late at night, analyzing every word and micro expression until you feel like you are losing your mind? Do you wonder if you said too much, too little, too loud, or too quiet, and convince yourself someone must be mad at you? That is not you being “crazy.” That is rumination,…
Read MoreEp #339: Stop Hating Who You Used to Be: Countdown to End Emotional Outsourcing
Learn how hating who you used to be blocks growth, and why compassion for your past self is essential for creating real, lasting change.
Read MoreEp #334: Somatics Q&A: Paradoxical Nervous System Responses Explained
Hear real questions from clients in Anchored and The Somatic Studio about why we sometimes experience confusing nervous system responses to tense situations.
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