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7 Holiday Questions and How to Handle Them With Grace

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 10, 2025

The holiday season can be beautiful, cozy, connective, and wildly triggering. Whether you’re the one who blurts out something awkward without meaning to, or you’re the one bracing for invasive…

1 Powerful People Pleasing Tool to Reclaim Your Voice and Set Boundaries

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 9, 2025

A People Pleasing Tool That Actually Helps You Speak Up If you’ve ever found yourself smiling at the wrong moment, saying yes when you meant no, or walking away from…

The Truth About Burnout and How to Begin Healing with 1 Easy Practice

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 4, 2025

We’re nearing the end of the year (which feels wild to even say), and for so many of us, this time doesn’t just come with twinkle lights and holiday chaos.…

How to Stop Apologizing for Existing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / December 2, 2025

Welcome to this week’s Tenderoni Hotline, the cozy corner of The Feminist Wellness Podcast where we answer your tenderest questions with love, nervous system science, and a big dose of…

The Third Arrow: Healing Shame, Boundaries, and Holiday Triggers

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 26, 2025

Today is Thanksgiving here in the U.S., and whether you are celebrating or not, I want to share something that just might shift your entire experience of this day and…

From Self-Abandonment to Self-Love: Ending Emotional Outsourcing with Mary Jelkovsky

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 25, 2025

Self-Love as the Path Back to Ourselves What happens when you stop performing and start being? In this episode I sit down with Mary Jelkovsky of Mary’s Cup of Tea…

How to Survive Thanksgiving When You’re Healing From Emotional Outsourcing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 19, 2025

It’s that time of year again. American Thanksgiving is next week, and if you’re already feeling that familiar dread in your body, you’re not alone. Every year around this time,…

Why Your Nervous System Craves Closure and Constant Reassurance in Relationships

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 18, 2025

Today, we are diving into two powerful questions around heartbreak, healing, and connection: Why do I keep replaying old conversations with my ex and craving closure, even though I know…

Why You Need to Celebrate Your People-Pleasing Habits (Yes, Really)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 13, 2025

The Hidden Genius Behind Your People-Pleasing Patterns Picture this: You’re drowning in sticky notes reminding yourself to “be nice.” You’re replying to emails nobody expected you to answer. You’re RSVPing…

How to Release Suppressed Anger and Stop Overfunctioning at Work

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / November 11, 2025

Two powerful questions came into the Feminist Wellness community this week, and they both speak directly to something so many of us carry every day: the emotional cost of living…