The Bea Victoria Albina Blog
Are you always the one holding it all together? Do you feel responsible for managing the emotions, choices, and lives of the people around you? If so, you may be…
Read More →The Third Arrow: How to Stop Shaming Yourself This Thanksgiving (Buddhist Psychology Guide) by Beatriz Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, SEP Bestselling Author of End Emotional Outsourcing and host of the…
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Understanding Seasonal Affective Disorder Listen, should we have talked about Seasonal Affective Disorder two months ago when the leaves first started dropping and the sky went gray? Probably. I was…
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The Vampire Invitation: When “No” Becomes a Negotiation You know how vampires can’t come into your house unless you invite them in? The same goes for the emotional vampires in…
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Welcome back to the Tenderoni Hotline, where I answer your real, beautiful, and brave questions about somatics, the nervous system, emotional outsourcing, and so much more. If you have a…
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Last week, we talked about what it looks like to be in relationship with an emotionally immature partner. Those confusing conversations where you show up hoping to be heard but…
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Why Guilt Shows Up Around Boundaries This is one of the most common and important questions that comes up in Anchored. Guilt shows up around boundaries because most of us…
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Are You Dealing With an Emotionally Immature Partner? Being in a relationship with an emotionally immature partner can feel like living in a constant fog. You start conversations hoping to…
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Question 1: Why do I go blank when someone asks what I need? This is such a tender question and one I hear all the time. Whether it’s a partner…
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Let’s talk about something tender and wildly important: the patterns that keep repeating in your life. The ones that hurt, confuse you, and feel just out of reach to truly…
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