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The Overfunctioning Trap: How Doing Everything for Everyone Is Costing You Real Love

The Overfunctioning Trap: How Doing Everything for Everyone Is Costing You Real Love

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 26, 2025

OK, real talk. Are you reading this while replying to texts, planning dinner, and mentally organizing your schedule for tomorrow? If so, I see you. I am you. And I…

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Functional Freeze: The Hidden Nervous System State Keeping You Stuck

Functional Freeze: The Hidden Nervous System State Keeping You Stuck

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 21, 2025

If you’ve ever felt like you’re “doing all the things” while somehow feeling numb, disconnected, or not quite present in your life, you’re not alone-and you’re not broken. This nervous…

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You're Not "Too Much" - How to Stop Shrinking Yourself for Others

You’re Not “Too Much” – How to Stop Shrinking Yourself for Others

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 19, 2025

Been told you’re “too dramatic,” “too sensitive,” or “too much”? Here’s the truth: you’re not too much – you’ve just been around people who were too small for your energy.…

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How to Practice Self-Compassion for Your Past Self and Create Real Change

How to Practice Self-Compassion for Your Past Self and Create Real Change

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 14, 2025

We’ve all been there, looking back at an old relationship, a decision, or a moment and thinking, “Ugh, I can’t believe I did that.” Maybe you stayed too long, said…

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How to Stop Performing Yourself for Everyone Else (The Exhaustion Ends Here)

How to Stop Performing Yourself for Everyone Else (The Exhaustion Ends Here)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 12, 2025

Feeling bone-deep tired from constantly being “on” around people? That’s not regular fatigue – that’s the exhaustion that comes from performing yourself instead of being yourself. Here’s how to take…

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Understanding Shame and Emotional Outsourcing: How to Break the Cycle and Reclaim Your Self-Worth

Shame and Emotional Outsourcing: Reclaim Your Self-Worth

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 7, 2025

What Is Shame and How It Fuels Emotional Outsourcing Shame is not just a feeling. It is a deeply embodied experience that tells us we are wrong or bad at…

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How to Stop Living for Everyone Else's Approval (And Start Living for You)

How to Stop Living for Everyone Else’s Approval (And Start Living for You)

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / August 5, 2025

Have you ever realized you don’t know what YOU want for breakfast because you’ve been so focused on making everyone else happy? You’re not alone – and you’re not broken.…

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A Deep Dive Into Financial Therapy and Emotional Outsourcing

Money Is Emotional: A Deep Dive Into Financial Therapy and Emotional Outsourcing

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / July 31, 2025

When we talk about money, we’re never just talking about money. In this powerful conversation with therapist and author Aja Evans, we peel back the layers of financial shame, childhood…

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How Modern Friendship Is Evolving and How to Nurture Yours

How Modern Friendship Is Evolving and How to Nurture Yours

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / July 24, 2025

What does it mean to be a good friend now? In a world where group chats replace weekly hangouts and the expectation to “show up” comes with emotional weight and…

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What Is Human Design? How It Helps You Reclaim Authenticity and Purpose

What Is Human Design? How It Helps You Reclaim Authenticity

By Beatriz Victoria Albina / July 17, 2025

At The Feminist Wellness, I am always exploring tools that help us reconnect with our authenticity and heal from the inside out. In this week’s article, I had the absolute…

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